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Matt Shaw's avatar

Douglas, this is such a rich piece of writing. Thank you for sharing it with the Speak Up community.

This is such a great reminder — "it can be all too easy to become caught up in regrets about the past or fears about the future."

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Zina Gomez-Liss's avatar

Thank you so much for sharing. It really is a struggle, and I struggle with mental illness as well. I was very bad off in my 20's and 30's. In midlife I am a much better person than I was before, but I do have regrets about my actions while in the midst of struggle. I don't excuse myself at all, and it is important to feel regret and make amends. But we are not defined by what we were. We are defined by our willingness to learn from our mistakes and make amends where they can be made. The further we have to climb out of a hole, the stronger we are compare to those who don't have to fight like this. It really looks like you are a good guy trying to live a good life, and that's what life is really about. Keep writing!

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